Upload a Good Picture
There is quite a possibility that your picture or photograph may not be quite appealing and hence you can try changing your picture on the site first. Do not hesitate to shoot your photograph from a professional photographer, as he knows best how to highlight your features and good assets. You can even ask your friend to shoot some digital photos that can be edited on the Photoshop to make them more appealing. You should upload a full-body shot and a head shot on the site. This will instantly make your profile on the online dating site more appealing.
Search for Compatible Partner
It is very important that you narrow down your search for a partner. Instead of pinging each and every female that seems near your age or region, search for someone with whom you will feel comfortable. Compatibility is very important when singles want to mingle and hence you should take some time finding out the profiles that match your choice.
Attract with an Engaging Mail
Personals looking out for their date should show their keenness and passion for finding the right partner. This can be made evident on the site by posting an engaging mail to the person you want to date. You can start by commenting on her/his profile and several other things such as what impressed you the most about the profile and her/his personality and so on. If there is his /her picture, you can comment on it.
Keep on Trying Different Every time
You can send different letters to the person you are interested in. If your initial starting letter was factual then, you can make the following one funny and so on. This will surely help you to get a good response as the other person will get to see your versatility and keenness for starting the relationship.